LIVE for yourself (LFY) consulting focuses on transforming others and cultivating personal fulfillment through personal alignment. 

Consulting Services


Life has its ups and downs, good and bad days, but fulfillment in your personal and professional life is not tied to being happy all the time or specific outcomes, it comes from knowing and living true to who you are.

Live for Yourself (LFY) Consulting offers personal consulting services to help clients learn how to live for themselves through the LIVE system, and corporate workshops aimed at improving rates of employee job satisfaction and retention.

Live for Yourself (LFY) Consulting bases its work on current research and strategies from behavioral and social psychology, learning theory, and leadership development.

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To be clear, none of this was easy. It took alot of time and work. Not to mention just facing the fact that I wasn’t the person I wanted to be, but it was more than worth it. Ben pushed, pulled, led, waited patiently, and during the whole time respected me and genuinely cared about my growth. The live program truly taught me how to finally live for myself and be the person I didn’t even know I could be.
— J.P.
I think the most important part of working with Ben was the amount of structure but flexibility, trust and respect, but no BS mentality he takes with his approach. He will call you out, show you the darkness at the bottom of the hole, and then prove to you that you can climb out into the light. Forever a new person because of Ben.
— D.S.
I honestly don’t know where I would be without Ben. Before working with him I was lonely, disheartened, and had almost no self-confidence due to a previous marriage. Ben was the first breath of fresh air I had taken in a long time. He was respectful, and extremely patient but demanded accountability. I am more confident and fulfilled than I have ever been. He really knows his stuff.
— P.G.

Personal consulting:

Life has it's ups and downs, and it's normal to one day wake up and realize that you aren't living the life you thought you'd be, or you aren't the person you thought you'd become. This feeling of loss can occur for a variety of reasons, such as from extreme changes in your life due to a loss of a relationship or job, or from just realizing you aren't living the life you actually want. Your success and fulfillment, in your personal or professional life, is only sustainable when you have a solid sense of self in the areas of intentions, values, and expectations.

Live for Yourself (LFY) consulting specializes in helping you build the tools you need to deal with these events and live a life of sustainable fulfillment. LFY consulting through a focus on the LIVE system has developed an individualized process to provide you with a guidebook for YOUR life, because fulfillment and satisfaction aren't tied to happiness or specific outcomes. It's from knowing who you are.

Potential clients that are interested in pursuing personalized consulting can make a purchase below based on specific needs.

  • General consultations and monthly block sessions are for specific situational questions or concerns that will not require a long-term LIVE program. 

  • The long-term LIVE system program is for concerns that require complete transformations and are oriented to meet specific longer term goals. 

Please email or fill out the form at the bottom of this page for inquiries and more information.

Ben has a deep technical understanding of social dynamics and social norms, this knowledge in combination with his natural charm makes him powerful and effective.
— S.M.

The LIVE system:

Created by Benjamin Ritter, MBA, MPH, EdD candidate, the LIVE system is based on a combination of learning theory, social and behavioral psychology, leadership development, life and business coaching, and can be applied to either personal (internal development, dating, relationships) or professional situations. The LIVE system focuses on exploring, defining, and understanding your internal self, your programming, while providing daily and weekly consulting, in order to create lasting and fulfilling change externally. The three main outcomes are Alignment, Confidence, and Emotional Intelligence (ACE). The LIVE system provides you with a guidebook for YOUR life and sustainable fulfillment.

The LIVE program and coursework targets your core sense of self, and limiting beliefs, and provides education, consulting, and activities that focus on internal development, and relationship introspection/management. The program coursework generally involves 4 specific functional areas;

  • Life: This course focuses on your past, present, future and internal belief systems, and develops habits and the mental framework you need for unbreakable confidence, and self esteem.

  • Intentions: This course focuses on your previous and current intentions, and those perceived by the people around you, and from previous relationships. Resulting in the realignment and awareness of personal intentions.

  •  Values: This course focuses on your past and present personal values, and the values you need for a successful, satisfying relationship. Resulting in awareness of value alignment throughout personal and professional endeavors, creating greater levels of confidence, fulfillment, and satisfaction.

  • Expectations: This course focuses on your past and present relationships, and boundaries. Resulting in a framework for reducing stress from specific relationships, potential new relationships, and communicating, and cultivating positive fulfilling relationships.

The consulting process involves a minimum of 3 months for the core courses and preferably another 3 months for installation and reframing, including at least weekly calls or meetings, activities, and assignments; program content and rates are structured based on the program that is the best fit and the comprehensiveness of the need.

If you are interested in the LIVE system please purchase the initial LIVE consultation session to begin the process. 

Purchase Personal Consulting Services:

General consultation

Consulting session includes:

  • Pre-analysis for fit, current state, future goals and specific objectives
  • Immediate and proven solutions for predetermined issues and concerns
  • Post assignments, and outline towards continuous improvement
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Monthly block consultation

Consulting session includes:

  • Pre-analysis for fit, current state, future goals and specific objectives
  • Immediate, progress oriented, and proven solutions for predetermined issues and concerns
  • Communication throughout the month on an as needed basis to be determined when defining the scope of the monthly block
  • Post assignments, and outline towards continuous improvement
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LIVE system program - Initial screening consultation

The initial consulting session for the LIVE program includes:

  • Screening of alignment and fit for the LIVE program, and between client and consultant.

  • Analysis of the client's current state, objectives, goals, and the goal behind the goal.

  • Personal consulting; strategies that can be immediately implemented based on the client's current state.

  • Development of a tentative program outline.

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What differentiates Benjamin Ritter from other life and relationship experts is the tremendous amount of respect he harbors for every individual he meets. When you first meet him, you immediately gather the sense that he genuinely cares about what he does as a coach and wants to invest in your personal growth and potential. He gathers his energy from seeing others succeed and provides an awesomely positive level of encouragement balanced with constructive feedback on how his clients can makes themselves the best at whatever they desire to improve in their lives and relationships. I consider it a great privilege to have been able to work with him and embark on a journey, with the aid of his easy to follow program, to build the life I’ve always wanted to live, but couldn’t find the resources and confidence to make it a reality. I have never been more happy, healthy, both mentally and physically, focused and purpose driven than I am at this time in my life and I attribute much of my personal growth and new found success with women to the teachings of this fine gentleman. Ben will show you the ways to stop living short of what you want out of life and find ways to improve your relationships, while at the same time, finding happiness and motivation from within yourself. I have tremendous respect and admiration for what he has done and continues to do for all the individuals he has helped, and I am grateful to have had him open my eyes, creating an awareness of the endless possibilities and choices I DO have the ability and opportunity to pursue.
— B.L.

Corporate workshops:

LFY Consulting offers research based interactive corporate workshops that are focused on; (a) cultivating greater personal meaning at work for employees, and (b) the LIVE system pillars for improving employee self-confidence, personal alignment, and emotional intelligence. 

a) Happiness at work:

  • Overview: Participants learn three research based strategies and create actions plans to immediately cultivate greater personal meaning at work.

  • Benefit to employees: The concepts of reframing, social context, and job-crafting are supported by current research on increasing levels of happiness at work for employees. Increased levels of happiness at work are positively related to job satisfaction, which also positively effects job performance, intent to stay, career commitment, and constructive work behaviors.

b) Live for Yourself:

  • Overview: Participants learn how to align four key areas of their lives - life, intentions, values, and expectations - to improve self-confidence, personal alignment, and emotional intelligence.

  • Benefit to employees: The LIVE pillars ultimately provide employees with a greater sense of confidence, alignment, and emotional intelligence, which leads to more fulfilled employees. Internal fulfillment at work is positively related to job satisfaction, which also positively effects job performance, intent to stay, career commitment, and constructive work behaviors.

Please email or fill out the form at the bottom of this page for inquiries and more information.

Ben has a very simple and charismatic approach to not only dating, but also the fundamentals of life. On many occasions he has guided me on the steps to being a masculine individual in a “world full of odds.” Great instructor, insightful mentor and a real mensch!
— T.M.

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Where many people look with negativity and see limited options, Ben sees opportunities and takes advantage with a positive outlook. He is able to teach this amazing gift with others.
— M.R.