Live for Yourself
Live for Yourself (LFY) consulting focuses on transforming others and cultivating personal fulfillment through personal alignment. 

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Live for Yourself (LFY) Consulting offers personal coaching/consulting services that focus on developing the clients internal leader and on a variety of issues that pertain to health, wealth, and happiness. Clients learn to take back control of their life, live for themselves, and cultivate greater levels of alignment, confidence, and emotional intelligence. Spaces are limited and client interest does not guarantee services.

Are you spending so much time living, but unsure who and what you are living for?

Do you feel stuck, overwhelmed, sick of the same results, or just too busy?

Are you ready to invest in yourself and take back control of your life? 


My experience with Ben was transformative. I started working with him with a clear focus on the professional aspect of my life, but the personal growth was unexpected and significant that resulted in breaking down one of my larger still lingering mistaken beliefs. My goal was to address my own barriers head on which required me to be completely transparent which was possible because he listened with compassion and interest which created a safe space. He took all the components of our conversations to turn them into actionable tasks that helped address both my professional goals and personal beliefs. I have better clarity of who I have been and where I want to go.


Life has it's ups and downs, and it's normal to one day wake up and realize that you aren't living the life you thought you'd be, or you aren't the person you thought you'd become. At times it’s easier to ignore that you need help, and just stay busy, but there’s a serious consequence to continuing to distract yourself.

Fast forward 10 years, what if nothing changes. Are you willing to lose that time, experiencing the same results over and over again?

At this point in your journey you may know that something is off in either your personal and professional life, and have been motivated to take certain steps to try and fix it. You may have read self-help books, browsed articles, listened to podcasts, and sometimes even attended seminars. All of these steps are important and create an impact, but the problem is that none of these solutions were created specifically for you.

That’s the main issue with the personal development industry, there are tons of resources but YOU still are the defining factor. You can read, listen, watch, and attend as much as you want, but what works for YOU is personal and specialized. All the resources in the world are not going to help you create the tools you need to make the right decisions, have confidence, and transform into the person you need to be for yourself. That’s why I founded Live for Yourself Consulting, offer various coaching and consulting programs, and created the LIVE system program. My goal is to provide each and every one of my clients the tools to cultivate sustainable alignment, confidence, and greater levels of emotional intelligence on their own. Once we work together, YOU will be in control of your life. 

There’s nothing dangerous about saying “I need help,” and that you can’t do this on your own, but there’s something very dangerous about ignoring that you do.


I think the most important part of working with Ben was the amount of structure but flexibility, trust and respect, but no BS mentality he takes with his approach. He will call you out, show you the darkness at the bottom of the hole, and then prove to you that you can climb out into the light. Forever a new person because of Ben


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Ready to develop your internal leader and take back control of your life?

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Imagine how you would feel if you always knew the right decision to make.

LFY Consulting integrates a combination of learning theory, social and behavioral psychology, and leadership development theories and research throughout its coaching practices, as well as its exclusive LIVE system to help YOU become and continue to be the person you’ve always desired. The LIVE system focuses on exploring, defining, and understanding your internal self, your programming, while providing daily and weekly coaching/consulting, in order to create lasting and fulfilling change internally and externally.

LFY consulting is founded on the principles that the coaching/consulting process is not forever and that clients should reach a level of sustainable fulfillment, and develop an internal leader that can guide them throughout their life without coaching/consulting. Based on previous clients successes and other professional experiences, clients tend to develop a sustainable internal leader and reach their program goals within 3 to 6 months of 2-hour or 1-hour weekly coaching/consulting sessions. More specific timelines can be provided based on specific client needs.

It’s time to get out of your own way and take the first step to becoming the person you’ve always desired



Click here to schedule an informational and screening session with Live for Yourself Consulting.

Note: coaching spaces are limited and interest does not guarantee services.

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Further client testimonials and success stories are listed below



Other client testimonials:

What differentiates Benjamin Ritter from other life and relationship experts is the tremendous amount of respect he harbors for every individual he meets. When you first meet him, you immediately gather the sense that he genuinely cares about what he does as a coach and wants to invest in your personal growth and potential. He gathers his energy from seeing others succeed and provides an awesomely positive level of encouragement balanced with constructive feedback on how his clients can makes themselves the best at whatever they desire to improve in their lives and relationships. I consider it a great privilege to have been able to work with him and embark on a journey, with the aid of his easy to follow program, to build the life I’ve always wanted to live, but couldn’t find the resources and confidence to make it a reality. I have never been more happy, healthy, both mentally and physically, focused and purpose driven than I am at this time in my life and I attribute much of my personal growth and new found success to the teachings of this fine gentleman. Ben will show you the ways to stop living short of what you want out of life and find ways to improve your relationships, while at the same time, finding happiness and motivation from within yourself. I have tremendous respect and admiration for what he has done and continues to do for all the individuals he has helped, and I am grateful to have had him open my eyes, creating an awareness of the endless possibilities and choices I DO have the ability and opportunity to pursue.

To be clear, none of this was easy. It took alot of time and work. Not to mention just facing the fact that I wasn’t the person I wanted to be, but it was more than worth it. Ben pushed, pulled, led, waited patiently, and during the whole time respected me and genuinely cared about my growth. The live program truly taught me how to finally live for myself and be the person I didn’t even know I could be

I have enjoyed the LFY Program with Ben Ritter. I can hardly believe three months have gone by. This program was both amazing and challenging to me. I started out with the goals to live for myself, take time for myself, date more and develop a fabulous social life. At the end I realized that living for myself at this point encompasses doing the things that I want and love in my life. Ben was a great consultant that really cares for his clients. He is patient and takes the time necessary to make sure that the client is supported. He did this with love and showed empathy. This made the sessions more comfortable, especially the challenging ones. Ben knows the technology of his program and that is why it is a success. I would refer him to others that are looking to align their values with their everyday living. My biggest challenge in the program was incorporating my professional life and my personal life, together as one. I had always kept these areas separate and through the program I was able to create strategies for melting these two worlds together. I had other epiphanies that were life changing and I am grateful for the LFY Program and the rediscovery of me.

Ben has a very simple and charismatic approach to not only dating, but also the fundamentals of life. On many occasions he has guided me on the steps to being a masculine individual in a “world full of odds.” Great instructor, insightful mentor and a real mensch!

Ben has a deep technical understanding of social dynamics and social norms, this knowledge in combination with his natural charm makes him powerful and effective.

I honestly don’t know where I would be without Ben. Before working with him I was lonely, disheartened, and had almost no self-confidence due to a previous marriage. Ben was the first breath of fresh air I had taken in a long time. He was respectful, and extremely patient but demanded accountability. I am more confident and fulfilled than I have ever been. He really knows his stuff.

Sample client success stories:


A female CEO from a religious and conservative family was seeking an opportunity to reconnect with her creativity and femininity, and be able to take create a lifestyle that held greater levels of freedom. She initially sought out coaching/consulting in order to craft the lifestyle she desired, professionally, and personally, social and romantic. Through working together she uncovered tendencies that caused her to push relationships away such as a distaste for being questioned, discovered and removed blockages that were holding her back from melding her professional and personal life together, such as the fear to embrace her femininity and trust in her employees, developed the belief that she was good enough, and that her capabilities are enough, and crafted greater emotional awareness. After 3 months of working together, she now loves herself first, has a positive social life, believes she is enough, and empowered her employees and can take time off of work without a concern.



A male leader in the corporate world was seeking an opportunity to become more social, meet more women, and craft a life that was bigger than the one he had. He initially sought out coaching/consulting in order to date more and improve his social skills. Through working together he created a solid foundation of confidence in himself, altered his frame of “rejection”, cultivated the ability to craft interesting conversation with total strangers in any situation and feel comfortable where he usually felt uncomfortable. He also discovered his core values and how to apply them in a variety of ways to find more meaning in his life, and to make more meaningful decisions. After 6 months of working together, he believes in his ability to craft any life he can dream of, received a promotion, is considering different business opportunities, and can be social and attractive in any situation that presents itself.



A female leader from the corporate world was seeking an opportunity to launch a business and create a positive social impact in the world. She initially sought out coaching/consulting in order to discover what she wanted to do, and how she was going to do it. She desired autonomy and meaning in her life. Through working together she uncovered a lack of confidence in herself and her capabilities that made her doubt herself despite her success, and kept her from making decisions that served her. She also had difficulty making decisions and was constantly stuck in a state of analysis. Throughout the program she also tested and tried various ideas and media channels, took action, and discovered where she found meaning. After 3 months of working together, she believes in herself, is constantly living intentionally to her values, and growing a business that will lead her to the life she desires, while also realizing she has and is enough.



A successful male leader was seeking an opportunity to examine his previous and current dating and relationship decisions. He initially sought out coaching/consulting in order to understand his needs for a relationship, and how to properly invest and manage a relationship for long-term success and satisfaction. Through working together for 3 months he gained an understanding of his values, needs for a relationship, set healthy boundaries and expectations, and chooses to invest and stay true to himself first, which ultimately led him to his long-term relationship.



Are you ready to develop your internal leader and take back control of your life?

Click here to schedule an informational and screening session with Live for Yourself Consulting.

Note: coaching spaces are limited and interest does not guarantee services.

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